In honor of the upcoming Valentine's holiday, I wanted to share some advice I gave to a friend of a friend.
He wants to know how to get his wife to have sex with him.
Sounds like a no-brainer, right? Wrong.
Women are an enigma, and i'm afraid that no man will ever fully figure us out.
(some have come close, though ...)
With that said, we're willing to throw you a bone
every now and then ... because really, we want to be satisfied just as much as you do.
guys, you need to:
1. take charge. Don't beat around the bush
when it comes to sex. If you want it, make your presence known. lead us, hold us, push us on the bed ... when done correctly — and safely — it's a fabulous turn-on! Which leads us to ...
2. take the initiative! Simply stated, subtlety doesn't work. Believe me, we ALWAYS know when you want it — we just want to see you work for it. Just because you sleep "right next door" doesn't mean she'll automatically give you a cup of her sugar. Show her you want it, and she'll most likely do the "neighborly" thing.
3. surprise her! Sometimes, there is nothing better than a sexual ambush. We love passionate kisses in the hallway, surprise neck nuzzles while cooking dinner and laundry folding liaisons. Caress her arm as you pass or simply draw her close for a slow dance in the living room. These small sensual acts typically have big payoffs. Seriously, try it.
4. romance her. Every woman wants to be reminded you desire her. Go out for dinner, buy her favorite flower, leave some love notes around the house and yes — talk about her feelings. You've gotta work some to get some!
5. respect her. I'm sure it's hard to believe, but sometimes, she just won't want to have sex, no matter what you do. Let her have her "I feel fat/tired/headachy" day. she'll remember the effort you put in and most likely repay you (and then some) as soon as she's up to it.
6. keep it spicy! Missionary is lame and sideways is tame. Fill your "bag of tricks" with a variety of things to choose from. (this goes back to the idea of surprising us) Think about it: you don't eat or wear the same thing every day, so don't have sex the same way every day, either!
once the passion is a flowin', you'll be sure to get her goin'! Good luck, sirs, and Godspeed.
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He wants to know how to get his wife to have sex with him.
Sounds like a no-brainer, right? Wrong.
Women are an enigma, and i'm afraid that no man will ever fully figure us out.
(some have come close, though ...)
With that said, we're willing to throw you a bone
every now and then ... because really, we want to be satisfied just as much as you do.guys, you need to:
1. take charge. Don't beat around the bush
when it comes to sex. If you want it, make your presence known. lead us, hold us, push us on the bed ... when done correctly — and safely — it's a fabulous turn-on! Which leads us to ... 2. take the initiative! Simply stated, subtlety doesn't work. Believe me, we ALWAYS know when you want it — we just want to see you work for it. Just because you sleep "right next door" doesn't mean she'll automatically give you a cup of her sugar. Show her you want it, and she'll most likely do the "neighborly" thing.
3. surprise her! Sometimes, there is nothing better than a sexual ambush. We love passionate kisses in the hallway, surprise neck nuzzles while cooking dinner and laundry folding liaisons. Caress her arm as you pass or simply draw her close for a slow dance in the living room. These small sensual acts typically have big payoffs. Seriously, try it.
4. romance her. Every woman wants to be reminded you desire her. Go out for dinner, buy her favorite flower, leave some love notes around the house and yes — talk about her feelings. You've gotta work some to get some!
5. respect her. I'm sure it's hard to believe, but sometimes, she just won't want to have sex, no matter what you do. Let her have her "I feel fat/tired/headachy" day. she'll remember the effort you put in and most likely repay you (and then some) as soon as she's up to it.
6. keep it spicy! Missionary is lame and sideways is tame. Fill your "bag of tricks" with a variety of things to choose from. (this goes back to the idea of surprising us) Think about it: you don't eat or wear the same thing every day, so don't have sex the same way every day, either!
once the passion is a flowin', you'll be sure to get her goin'! Good luck, sirs, and Godspeed.
like the post? share it with your friends. and don't forget: I'm on facebook, and now on twitter! check me out!
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